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Mar 9, 2022Liked by Allison Raskin

I needed this today. This was perfect. You said it all.

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so glad it resonated xoxox A

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Mar 9, 2022Liked by Allison Raskin

As someone who has a top comment on your video discussing the engagement that says “You dodged a nuke”…at least I didn’t say bullet?! 😬 But truly, this is a amazing piece of writing and something I will definitely take with me from now on. 🧡

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ha! don't worry at all! I totally understand why people said it! Thank you so much for reading xoxo A

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Mar 9, 2022Liked by Allison Raskin

You have summed up exactly how I've been feeling for the last 4 months about my ex-fiance leaving me. It makes me angry and sad when people tell me that I dodged a bullet. It means they're not listening to how much I loved him and (atleast in the moment) how much he loved me too, despite his actions in the end.

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I get why people do it but it still doesn't hit right! Sending so much love xoxo A

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Completely feel the same way. Especially as I was planning to have children with him this year. "He would have left 3 years in". Well, how the hell would we know that?

How are you doing? My ex-fiance (of 8 years dating) left me as we were leaving for our wedding at the end of September (one month after purchasing our first house).

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