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Tania Weatherley's avatar

As someone currently editing my first romcom novel with a glorious muddled mix of fact and fiction with elements of my life intertwined this is exactly what I needed to read thanks!

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Allison Raskin's avatar

I'm so glad it was helpful!!

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Leslie Senevey's avatar

Thanks for this reminder about the craft of blurring the lines between us and them (our creations). Useful info! Also, Fight On! (My daughter went to USC and lives in LA.)

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Allison Raskin's avatar

The fun is in the blurring!!

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Kelso's avatar

Thank you so much for posting this. I've been a writer since I was 13, and my first work was a 100 page Twilight fanfiction starring me and my friends (different names, of course!) But as I grew older and made writer friends, many of them write in a fantasy and sci-fi genre, and it's been making me feel as though my writing isn't as creative because of how much I pull from my real-life experiences versus how much world-building they do. I just appreciate this friendly reminder that pulling from your day to day life is still a creative venture, and a completely valid method as a creator.

(Just received my pre-order of your book! Can't wait to read it! You've been such an incredible inspiration to me for the past 14 years. Thank you for everything you share. It always resonates so much. 🩶)

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Allison Raskin's avatar

I totally understand the impulse to try to rank creativity but if you are writing at all you are flexing those muscles! thank you so much for the support!! I hope you enjoy the read!!

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Kelly's avatar

Read the book over the weekend! It’s SO good & such a fun premise 👏

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Allison Raskin's avatar

Oh thank you so much!!! I'm so glad you enjoyed it!!

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Myq Kaplan's avatar

dear allison,

great piece!

i love this: "Apparently, I have gotten so good at mixing the real with the imaginary that my own father couldn’t remember which parts of SAVE THE DATE were based on true events. (To be fair, this might be more due to his poor memory than my expectational writing prowess. I guess we will never know for sure, which works for me.)"

and this nugget from your teacher is great also: “Main characters are often the most boring because we base them on ourselves, and we are too afraid to give them flaws.”

thanks for sharing as always!

love

myq

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Allison Raskin's avatar

Thank you Myq!!

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Melinda Gayle's avatar

"Write what you know" is a popular school of thought in writing.

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Elaine R. Frieman's avatar

I loved the book! Only took me a day to listen. 🫶🏻🤩

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Allison Raskin's avatar

Oh yay!!

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Jennie's avatar

I'm in the middle of listening to this book and I am absolutely trying to decipher what is real and what is made up lol! (Glad to hear Jocelyn is not exactly like Jackie because, damn...) It's a great read, Allison! (And you really aced all of the character voices!)

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Allison Raskin's avatar

Oh thank you so much!!! That means a lot!

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